The cycle of human concerns

I care -> I care enough to sacrifice -> Others blame you for wanting your happiness -> I feel concerned -> Realize that your demands are hurting someone -> I try to communicate the concerns and stand by my principle of sacrifices -> Realize that your feeling sorry doesn't matter -> I try to go all out there with everything you believe in and try to put your view point -> Realize that you will be blamed forever to have gone out of the norms -> I watch silently -> I give up -> Happiness doesn't matter anymore -> Others tell you that its your happiness that matters in the end -> I go nuts then why are we in this situation -> Time passes -> Others forget -> I forget -> I care

And there it all begins again with a new situation.
I wish I had the inertness of saying "Frankly, I dont give a damn". I think I will reach there some day.